If you are reading this, you have probably heard of the term ‘wing man’. Many people use it to introduce their best buddies, their work partners, and really anyone else who holds a significant position their life. On Sunday morning while preparing for church, my thoughts drifted to Obama’s administration (weird I know). I found myself admiring the fact that he led two scandal-free terms and took an economy that was in the gutter when he was sworn into power, and raised it back to better standards. Surely he did not do any of that of his own. Of course he had Michelle to support him and push him when necessary, but he also had a wing-man – Joe Biden.
If you are married, you need to develop the ‘wing-man’ mentality. You need to see your spouse as your ‘wing-man’ (I am speaking to both men and women here). Your partner is not the enemy (that is if you are not being abused). Your partner is not someone to compete against. Your partner is not the opposition. If you have the wing-man mentality, your partner becomes your strategy partner, your winning partner, and when times are bad, your losing partner, but a supportive partner nonetheless. The wing-man mentality means your partner is part of every decision, in the know regarding every move, and is your go-to person when you are caught between the Egyptians and the red sea. Your partner is not a feather you can easily move or a piece of clothing you can change for something more shiny at the store if you still have the receipt. View your partner as someone who is indispensableto your existence and you are golden. A marriage where both partners have the wing-man mentality is more likely to thrive and is most often above petty issues. XOXO