#BrokenSeries The Breakers (2) – Society and Friends

If you have been following the #BrokenSeries, this is post number 3 in the series. In the last two post, I highlighted how brokenness can make you feel, how to identify if you are broken but unaware of it, and how the acts of parents and lovers can lead to brokenness. In this post, I want to focus on the second set of breakers – … Continue reading #BrokenSeries The Breakers (2) – Society and Friends

#BrokenSeries2: The Breakers – Parents, and Lovers

If you didn’t read the first post of this series, you can find it here This is the second post of the #BrokenSeries, and in this post, the focus is on the people and things that tend to break us, even though we are unaware of it at the time it is happening. Parents, past and present lovers, friends and even society have an impact … Continue reading #BrokenSeries2: The Breakers – Parents, and Lovers

Battle of the Mirrors: Which Mirror is Good For You?

Have you ever stood in front of a mirror and realized that you look absolutely perfect? No wrinkles or acne spots, no visible pores, and your complexion is just magically the perfect even tone? Yea I stood in front of one at my new apartment over the weekend and thought to myself “wow look at me!” I had to run some errands and did not … Continue reading Battle of the Mirrors: Which Mirror is Good For You?

#TeamSnoop: On The Issue of Le Boo’s Cellphone

You’ve probably been in that situation – to snoop or not to snoop through your partner’s phone. People with a lot of experience in the field tell you it is best not to snoop to avoid giving yourself a heart attack. On the other hand, those who have been in less than desirable situations as a result of ignorance, tell you it’s best to snoop, so … Continue reading #TeamSnoop: On The Issue of Le Boo’s Cellphone

Here’s How You Are Creating Communication Problems In Your Relationship

One of the biggest issues surrounding relationships (friendships included) is communication. Most of the relationship issues I have heard, read, and watched all boil down to that one seemingly tiny factor called communication. This is rather interesting when one looks at it from the inception of the relationship where communication was not an issue, and both parties seemed to understand each other perfectly. How then … Continue reading Here’s How You Are Creating Communication Problems In Your Relationship

You Want to Win in the New Year? Leave These Behind!

As the year rolls to an end, as it custom for me, I take time to reflect on battles won, blessings received, friends made, and the impact I have had on those around me. Most importantly, I take time to go through the junk I may have accumulated during the course of the year – the conference programme I’m still holding on to five months … Continue reading You Want to Win in the New Year? Leave These Behind!

You Need the ‘Wing-Man’ Mentality

If you are reading this, you have probably heard of the term ‘wing man’. Many people use it to introduce their best buddies, their work partners, and really anyone else who holds a significant position their life. On Sunday morning while preparing for church, my thoughts drifted to Obama’s administration (weird I know). I found myself admiring the fact that he led two scandal-free terms … Continue reading You Need the ‘Wing-Man’ Mentality

Good Guys’ Guide to Getting the Girl On the First Date

A while ago, I wrote a post about good girls getting the guy (check it out here). This is a follow-up post aimed at the good guys who just can’t seem to get the girl. There was a time I thought women were the problem; perhaps we truly prefer the bad boys who keep us on our toes emotionally and make us shed tears like … Continue reading Good Guys’ Guide to Getting the Girl On the First Date

You Are Living Life Wrong if You Are Doing This

Every year, as December approaches, I see many people trying to make the most of the last few days of the year. Messages like “It’s not late; you can still achieve the goals you set for this year” start popping up, and it seems like there is a rush to make sure everything we planned to achieve on the 1st of January gets a tick … Continue reading You Are Living Life Wrong if You Are Doing This