If there is one thing that exhausts me on social media, it is the volume of opinions that are rammed down people’s throats as facts. There are so many opinions on social media these days that the thought of even logging onto facebook exhausts me. Even Twitter, my favourite social media app is becoming toxic by the day. And while Instagram is not that bad, … Continue reading Why Are We PREPARING for Bad Marriages?
Maybe….just maybe… marriages break down for one simple reason no one is paying attention to. I had an interesting epiphany as I conversed with a friend last night. It was not a Eureka! moment, nor did the word Voila! come to heart. It was a theory that formed as the conversation progressed, highlighting what I believe may be the reason marriages go from “I can’t … Continue reading Perhaps This Is Why Some Marriages Break Down
Those were the words that haunted me as I went to bed a couple of nights ago. After my usual routine of watching tv for at least a couple of hours a day, I struck up a spontaneous conversation with one of my acquaintances on BBM and the conversation steered in the direction of relationships. She asked why I wasn’t seeing anyone and I simply … Continue reading “Don’t Be Left Behind!!!”
Whenever christian women get the question “What kind of guy would you like?”, the first response is “he must be christian” and other qualities such as tall, handsome, financially well-to-do and bla bla follow. Of course, if you are asking someone who is scared to show she is interested in something ‘worldly’ like money, you get the “As long as he is Christian, I’m fine! … Continue reading Why That Fire-Spitting, Demon-Chasing Christian brother is just NOT RIGHT for you
This post is a question filled with many other questions. I have decided to write up on this because i do not fully understand the dynamics of this aspect of marriage and I hope my dear readers can give some input regarding this issue. Is marriage for childbearing or companionship or both? You may have thought about this like I have; perhaps you have taken … Continue reading Marriage: For childbearing or companionship?
A beautiful bride, a handsome groom, delightful wedding guests and perfect plans can make for a great mix on a woman’s wedding day. You can tell by how she gushes as you congratulate her on her big day, the tear drop that travels down her cheek when the vows are exchanged and the ear-to-ear grin that seems glued to her face. Fast-forward, a year or … Continue reading Marriage is not a chore!
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22). I have heard this bible verse so many times that I often find myself reciting it automatically to men that have an aversion to marriage. I recited it without really thinking there was any depth to it. I’ve heard it at almost every wedding I’ve attended, at church … Continue reading He who finds a wife…